By Veronica Lozano
As a major resource in the wedding industry here in Central Texas, we are often approached with funny industry stories. Such was the case recently when we heard some some wedding professionals discussing pet peeves of theirs in terms of etiquette. So collectively, we listened and gathered info from bridal shop owners and their staff to gain their perspective.
And all are quick to say, “we have seen a lot, and most know the rules when they enter our shop(s), however, there are a few…” Ultimately, it is about reciprocal respect. Consultants want you to find the perfect dress (hopefully with them), so imagine what your experience would be like if you come in with a great attitude and the following few tips in hand.
So here we go, you have the ring, you’ve set the date and now on to the dress. You’ve waited years to go on this special shopping trip, but wait! There are some things you should know both in preparing for the epic shopping trip to your actual etiquette while at the many bridal stores you will visit.
1. Do: Start researching styles of gowns by getting a few bridal magazines and bookmarking the pages. Make note of the designer and see where the nearest retailer to you is.
Don’t: Just walk into a store without any opinions on what you are looking for. It can be frustrating to consultants if you haven’t done your research. There are literally thousands and thousands of dresses, and they can’t put you in every single gown.
2. Do: Bathe before your shopping trip. Sounds silly but, this is really quite practical.
Don’t: Have body lotion on with glitter or freshly self-tanned with a tinted cream. These can leave the dresses you try on stained.
3. Do: Have a clean face.
Don’t: Likewise, a clean face is something to consider because if you have to put dresses on over your head, you don’t want to smear your makeup all over the tops of these very expensive gowns. If you must put on a face before walking out the door, veer towards the lighter side.
4. Do: Be modest when you try on dresses with assistance.
Don’t: Show up to the dress shops without proper foundation garments…or worse, NO UNDERGARMENTS AT ALL! Ladies, it’s wonderful that you are so proud of your bodies, however, when dressers are helping you and are so close to your “girly parts,” not everyone is comfortable with brides who go “commando.” Instead, at least for your shopping trips, invest in a pair of nude panties and nude strapless bra for an optimal look and comfort of others.
5. Do: Bring a special friend or family memeber to share in your experience.
Don’t: Bring the ranch with 13 aunts, cousins, and childhood friends. Space is always limited, even with individually scheduled appointments, so be mindful that everyone could get cramped and the tone of the day can turn very quickly.
6. Do: Have a glass of champagne to lessen the anxiety of being overwhelmed by the experience.
Don’t: Have a bottle of champagne and get sloppy drunk during your shopping. Emotions are already high enough as it is, and alcohol can exacerbate both happy and anxiety-ridden emotions. There is nothing worse than trying to get a bride out of a dress while she’s hysterically crying.
7. Do: Bring the right pair of shoes with you.
Don’t: Forget your shoes, bring the wrong shoes, or think you can eyeball it. Alternations can be very expensive and if you don’t have extra funds embedded in your budget for a second round of hemming, having your shoes selected before hand,or at least the DEFINITE height, will be a life saver.
8. Do: Have the funds ready to put a deposit down if you find THE dress.
Don’t: Delay in putting the deposit down due to time constraints. The sooner you put a deposit down, the sooner your dress will be made and back to you. If for whatever reason, it comes in and something is wrong, you’ll have time to figure out a Plan B.
9. Do: Get permission from the bridal shop to take pictures.
Don’t: Try to take pictures on the down low. Dress shops often have very strict contracts with their dress designer/distributers that prevent unauthorized photos of their dresses floating around.





















